hawkwing wrote:
I don't get the bathroom hubbub. Your son is more likely to be molested by another male in the men's restroom than your daughter is to be molested by a male in the women's restroom.
You accompany your kids to the restroom until they are old enough to watch out for themselves. Don't rely on corporations and government to keep your kids safe in public restrooms--if you do, you're an idiot.
Nothing in recent months in this transgender restroom debate changes any of that. It's a bunch of moral crusaders on both sides of a non-issue making a tempest in a teapot.
You actually intend to accompany your daughter into the restroom and LOCKER ROOM (which if you'll notice this thread is about, not restrooms) every day at school? You must have a great job to allow yourself that flexibility.
Ummm....nearly every post including the OP mentions restrooms as well. Sorry to offend you by talking about restrooms. Maybe we can make this thread a safe-space for people who only want to talk about locker rooms?
I think you also missed the part about how we accompany our kids "until they are old enough to watch out for themselves." By the time my kids start kindergarten, they know that they use a stall with a door (that works) no matter what, and if there is someone in there that makes them uncomfortable, they ask the teacher if they can use another restroom or ask to see the nurse. This issue of vulnerability in restrooms didn't suddenly appear in the last year--it's been around since the first public restroom, and I say shame on parents who are just now starting to worry about it.
By the time my kids are in middle school where they actually have locker rooms, they'll know what to do there as well--if anyone is in the locker room that makes you uncomfortable, you change in the bathroom stall with a door, and if there is no other option, come straight home to shower and change. It's the same thing my parents taught me and my siblings, and it's what we'll teach our kids.