Gunk wrote:
I know plenty of active LDS parents that think BYU is extremely restrictive and does more harm than good in teaching young men and women to live the gospel in the "real world." I know plenty of temple worthy parents that don't want their daughters going to BYU where they will be pressured to marry young and told pursuing professional aspirations and talents are secondary to having babies.
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Ha! I just have to weigh in here. I moved from Utah to the east coast recently and what surprised me was how different the opinions of parents out here were regarding BYU. Lots of BYU transplants of course, but even among them I found these attitudes a surprise:
BYU Provo - for aspiring professional types. Too busy for marriage and family. Not a good gospel experience.
BYU Idaho - where you send your daughter if your highest hope is that she marries a good RM with a testimony, or where you send your son if you don't want him to wash out being placed next to those Ivy-capable students he'll be competing with. Nice, safe, FHE-friendly school.
BYU Hawaii - Howli's need not apply (that's actually not too much different from Utah thinking).
University of Utah - a school that never gets considered outside of its alumni, since much better state schools locally, same goes for Arizona, Arizona State, UCLA, USC, UC Berkeley, etc., crickets.