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byutx...I learned on my mission, or so goes the quote (sort of.)
A good friend and CC contributor and I were talking about the mission experience, particularly about mission politics. It made me think about what Riley and Jake gained/didn't gain by serving/not serving a mission. Beyond the obvious growth in maturity and stature, I believe Jake would have grown in his ability to better read and deal with people, particularly his teammates, and their several agendas.
There were some fantastic missionaries in leadership positions in my mission in South Texas-elders who were born to lead and inspire. Some of the best men I have or will ever know were this type of missionary.
Then there were a few who needed those positions to be able to develop and mature-elders who needed the experience to become better missionaries and men. I witnessed tremendous growth among this group-one in particular grew from immature idiot to a strong man of faith in just a few months.
Then there were a select few posers that weren't necessarily bad missionaries (or good ones) but that would and say and do the right things, but only at strategic times and for whom all the stars would line up perfectly to allow them to scoot into positions of leadership-elders that knew how to play the game. Everyone knew about mission politics, but these guys made an artform of them.
I was not a fan of these types but I had the misfortune of replacing one of them to "fix" his area once all the stars went out of alignment and our president finally saw him for what he was. This elder had some important friends in key positions (AP, Office Elders, couple zone leaders and, of course, the Mission President) and was a district leader. He and his zone leader best friend literally planned how the ZL would become AP, get the DL "promoted" to ZL and then bring him in-plan A was as AP and plan B was as an office elder.
When I got to the area there was nothing going on. The 30 or so people in the teaching pool that this elder had been reporting was really about 8 people (1 family, couple individual really old folks) that had no real interest in the discussions but sure loved this elder. His most recent baptism refused to come to church. It was obvious that they hadn't been working the full complement of hours (although they reported to the contrary).
There are certain things that I believe can only really be learned and honed on a mission. Many of them are good qualities and Christ-like attributes. But one often overlooked skill [if you can even call it that] is the ability to play politics as a manipulator or, as its corollary, the ability to recognize these folks and discern their intent.
If Jake Heaps had served a mission, I believe he would have matured. I believe he would have been humbled. I believe he would have been converted to the gospel in a way that is unique to the missionary experience. I also believe he would have learned to either play the political games or, at least, be able to identify and avoid them-rather than be a victim of them.
For the record, I am a BYU-guy. I am not a Jake or a Riley guy. I'm one that thought that Riley should finish out the season because of his success on the field, albeit against weaker opponents. But, I can't help wonder what might have been if things had gone better-if there wasn't a deep rift in the locker room-if there weren't any "ites" among them. I don't pretend to know all the background involved, but I do know that Heaps had a prima donna attitude and that Riley Nelson played mission-like political games in an environment ideally suited for the creation of (to borrow from my CC friend) a sense of "reverse entitlement" due to Bronco's borderline infatuation with "Little Engines that Could." It worries me that as the talent in Bronco's recruiting classes has increased, our on-field outputs have regressed.
In the end, I don't pretend to say that I have a solution. And, since I'm just an "uneducated fan" [as Bronco would say] looking on from the outside, I don't know that my opinion means a lot. But, I do think the team can learn from this and we as fans can do likewise.
Furthermore, instead of getting depressed wondering what might have been, I hope our guys can somehow pull it together and become a team again. I would love for them to prove me wrong, but I don't think they can do it until several key upperclassmen, including and especially Riley Nelson, graduate. Best case scenario would be for them to all pull together for next year (whether Jake redshirts or is the starter) to begin the process of rebuilding together. The worst case scenario would be for Jake to transfer and Riley being replaced after his yearly injury by some combination of Lark/Munns or a recently RM Taysom Hill. What I suspect, though, is another mediocre season in 2012 with 8 or so wins and losses at Utah, BSU, ND and GT and a Poinsettia Bowl appearance against the #2 MWC team. I hope that is enough. I think 2013 could be a special year, but much will hinge on what happens next year and whether Jake stays in Provo.
We are at a major crossroads as a team, school and fanbase. This is the worst time for division and disunity, for sarcasm and synicism-both on the team and among us as fans. This post started to serve as an out for my frustration but has turned into a bout of self-reflection and a catharsis of sorts. I am hopeful that things will work out, despite being doubtful they will based on the current status of the team. In the NFL it's okay if everyone hates eachother, cause they're all getting paid, much of which is directly related to the outcome on the field. Hate in a college football locker room is poison, one that threatens the very band that makes the team a band of brothers.
For my part, I am going to try to look past the politics, enjoy this Saturday's near-certain win in Honolulu and then wait for the bowl game where I will, in person, cheer the Cougars on to victory. ALL of them.
A good friend and CC contributor and I were talking about the mission experience, particularly about mission politics. It made me think about what Riley and Jake gained/didn't gain by serving/not serving a mission. Beyond the obvious growth in maturity and stature, I believe Jake would have grown in his ability to better read and deal with people, particularly his teammates, and their several agendas.
There were some fantastic missionaries in leadership positions in my mission in South Texas-elders who were born to lead and inspire. Some of the best men I have or will ever know were this type of missionary.
Then there were a few who needed those positions to be able to develop and mature-elders who needed the experience to become better missionaries and men. I witnessed tremendous growth among this group-one in particular grew from immature idiot to a strong man of faith in just a few months.
Then there were a select few posers that weren't necessarily bad missionaries (or good ones) but that would and say and do the right things, but only at strategic times and for whom all the stars would line up perfectly to allow them to scoot into positions of leadership-elders that knew how to play the game. Everyone knew about mission politics, but these guys made an artform of them.
I was not a fan of these types but I had the misfortune of replacing one of them to "fix" his area once all the stars went out of alignment and our president finally saw him for what he was. This elder had some important friends in key positions (AP, Office Elders, couple zone leaders and, of course, the Mission President) and was a district leader. He and his zone leader best friend literally planned how the ZL would become AP, get the DL "promoted" to ZL and then bring him in-plan A was as AP and plan B was as an office elder.
When I got to the area there was nothing going on. The 30 or so people in the teaching pool that this elder had been reporting was really about 8 people (1 family, couple individual really old folks) that had no real interest in the discussions but sure loved this elder. His most recent baptism refused to come to church. It was obvious that they hadn't been working the full complement of hours (although they reported to the contrary).
There are certain things that I believe can only really be learned and honed on a mission. Many of them are good qualities and Christ-like attributes. But one often overlooked skill [if you can even call it that] is the ability to play politics as a manipulator or, as its corollary, the ability to recognize these folks and discern their intent.
If Jake Heaps had served a mission, I believe he would have matured. I believe he would have been humbled. I believe he would have been converted to the gospel in a way that is unique to the missionary experience. I also believe he would have learned to either play the political games or, at least, be able to identify and avoid them-rather than be a victim of them.
For the record, I am a BYU-guy. I am not a Jake or a Riley guy. I'm one that thought that Riley should finish out the season because of his success on the field, albeit against weaker opponents. But, I can't help wonder what might have been if things had gone better-if there wasn't a deep rift in the locker room-if there weren't any "ites" among them. I don't pretend to know all the background involved, but I do know that Heaps had a prima donna attitude and that Riley Nelson played mission-like political games in an environment ideally suited for the creation of (to borrow from my CC friend) a sense of "reverse entitlement" due to Bronco's borderline infatuation with "Little Engines that Could." It worries me that as the talent in Bronco's recruiting classes has increased, our on-field outputs have regressed.
In the end, I don't pretend to say that I have a solution. And, since I'm just an "uneducated fan" [as Bronco would say] looking on from the outside, I don't know that my opinion means a lot. But, I do think the team can learn from this and we as fans can do likewise.
Furthermore, instead of getting depressed wondering what might have been, I hope our guys can somehow pull it together and become a team again. I would love for them to prove me wrong, but I don't think they can do it until several key upperclassmen, including and especially Riley Nelson, graduate. Best case scenario would be for them to all pull together for next year (whether Jake redshirts or is the starter) to begin the process of rebuilding together. The worst case scenario would be for Jake to transfer and Riley being replaced after his yearly injury by some combination of Lark/Munns or a recently RM Taysom Hill. What I suspect, though, is another mediocre season in 2012 with 8 or so wins and losses at Utah, BSU, ND and GT and a Poinsettia Bowl appearance against the #2 MWC team. I hope that is enough. I think 2013 could be a special year, but much will hinge on what happens next year and whether Jake stays in Provo.
We are at a major crossroads as a team, school and fanbase. This is the worst time for division and disunity, for sarcasm and synicism-both on the team and among us as fans. This post started to serve as an out for my frustration but has turned into a bout of self-reflection and a catharsis of sorts. I am hopeful that things will work out, despite being doubtful they will based on the current status of the team. In the NFL it's okay if everyone hates eachother, cause they're all getting paid, much of which is directly related to the outcome on the field. Hate in a college football locker room is poison, one that threatens the very band that makes the team a band of brothers.
For my part, I am going to try to look past the politics, enjoy this Saturday's near-certain win in Honolulu and then wait for the bowl game where I will, in person, cheer the Cougars on to victory. ALL of them.

